Hazrat Imam Jaffar Saddiq a.s Says  
                           
1 He who treats people kindly will be accepted as arbiter.                
2 If problems are added to each other, they will give birth of relief              
3 To remove a mountain is easier than removing faith.                  
4 Life is to rent a house and buy bread.                  
5 An actual believer is that whose sexual appetite does not overcome him and whose stomach does not shame him      
6 Debt is grief at night and humility in day                  
7 Treat your fathers piously so that your sons will treat you piously. Keep yourselves away from the strange women so that your harem will be chaste.
8 In good days, Allah endows with the grace of consent. In distress, He endows with the grace of purification.      
9 The (Faithful) believer should enjoy eight characters; he should be venerable in shaking situations, steadfast against misfortunes, thankful in luxury, satisfied
  with what Allah has decided to him, avoid oppressing the enemies, avoid overtasing the associates, should fatigue his body,    
  and make people feel glad with him.                  
10 Nothing like thanks in increasing the favorable matters and nothing like patience in decreasing the unfavorable matters.      
11 The world is the believer's jail, patience is his fortress, and Paradise is his abode. The world is the disbeliever's paradise,    
  grave is his jail, and Hell is his abode